/* Kindred North — deep charcoal + rose/coral. Its own brand (not Services navy/gold). */
:root{
  --bg:#141013; --bg2:#1d171c; --panel:#221a20; --line:#3a2c34;
  --ink:#f4e9ec; --muted:#b9a3ac; --accent:#ff5a76; --accent2:#ff8a5c;
  --grad:linear-gradient(120deg,var(--accent),var(--accent2));
  --ok:#57d9a3; --err:#ff7a7a; --radius:16px;
}
*{box-sizing:border-box}
body{margin:0;background:radial-gradient(1000px 500px at 80% -100px,#3a1e2a 0,var(--bg) 55%);color:var(--ink);
  font-family:"Segoe UI",system-ui,-apple-system,Roboto,Arial,sans-serif;line-height:1.55;min-height:100vh}
a{color:var(--accent2);text-decoration:none} a:hover{text-decoration:underline}
.wrap{max-width:1080px;margin:0 auto;padding:26px 18px 60px}
.nav{display:flex;justify-content:space-between;align-items:center;gap:14px;flex-wrap:wrap;
  padding:14px 22px;border-bottom:1px solid var(--line);background:rgba(20,16,19,.85);position:sticky;top:0;z-index:20;backdrop-filter:blur(8px)}
.brand{font-weight:800;font-size:1.25rem;color:var(--ink)}
.brand-mark{background:var(--grad);color:#fff;border-radius:10px;padding:2px 9px;margin-right:6px}
nav a{margin-left:16px;color:var(--ink)} nav a.btn{color:#fff}
.badge{background:var(--accent);color:#fff;border-radius:999px;padding:0 8px;font-size:.78rem;font-weight:700}
.btn{display:inline-block;background:var(--grad);color:#fff;border:0;border-radius:999px;padding:10px 22px;
  font-weight:700;cursor:pointer;font-size:.95rem}
.btn:hover{filter:brightness(1.1);text-decoration:none}
.btn.ghost{background:transparent;border:1px solid var(--accent);color:var(--accent)}
.btn.danger{background:#5a1f28;border:1px solid #8a3542;color:#ffb3bc}
.btn.small{padding:6px 14px}.btn.big{padding:13px 30px;font-size:1.05rem}
.linkbtn{background:none;border:0;color:var(--accent2);cursor:pointer;font:inherit;padding:0}
.danger-text{color:var(--err)!important}
h1{font-size:2rem;margin:.2em 0 .5em} h2{margin-top:1.2em}
.muted{color:var(--muted)} .meta{color:var(--muted);font-size:.92rem;margin:.15em 0}
.flash{border-radius:12px;padding:12px 16px;margin:14px 0;background:#2a2030;border:1px solid var(--line)}
.flash.err{background:#3d1d24;border-color:#7a3542;color:#ffc9d0}
.hero{padding:56px 10px 30px;text-align:center}
.hero h1{font-size:3.2rem;background:var(--grad);-webkit-background-clip:text;background-clip:text;color:transparent}
.lede{font-size:1.25rem;color:var(--muted)}
.age-note{max-width:640px;margin:28px auto 0;border:1px solid #7a5a35;background:#2c2118;color:#f3d9ae;
  border-radius:12px;padding:14px 18px;text-align:left}
.stats-strip{display:flex;gap:14px;flex-wrap:wrap;margin:26px 0}
.stats-strip>div{flex:1;min-width:140px;background:var(--panel);border:1px solid var(--line);border-radius:var(--radius);
  padding:18px;text-align:center}
.stats-strip strong{display:block;font-size:1.7rem;background:var(--grad);-webkit-background-clip:text;background-clip:text;color:transparent}
.stats-strip span{color:var(--muted);font-size:.9rem}
.panel{background:var(--panel);border:1px solid var(--line);border-radius:var(--radius);padding:20px 22px;margin:16px 0}
.meter{height:10px;background:#120d10;border-radius:99px;overflow:hidden;margin-top:10px}
.meter span{display:block;height:100%;background:var(--grad)}
.grid{display:grid;grid-template-columns:repeat(auto-fill,minmax(230px,1fr));gap:18px;margin:18px 0}
.card.person{background:var(--panel);border:1px solid var(--line);border-radius:var(--radius);overflow:hidden}
.card.person a{color:var(--ink);display:block}.card.person a:hover{text-decoration:none}
.card-photo{width:100%;height:250px;object-fit:cover;display:block;background:#2c2129}
span.card-photo.initials{display:flex;align-items:center;justify-content:center;font-size:4rem;font-weight:800;color:var(--accent)}
.card-body{padding:14px 16px}.card-body h3{margin:0}
.tags{margin:.4em 0 0}.tag{display:inline-block;background:#33222b;border:1px solid var(--line);color:#f0c6cd;
  border-radius:999px;padding:2px 10px;font-size:.78rem;margin:0 6px 6px 0}
.filters{display:flex;gap:12px;flex-wrap:wrap;align-items:end;background:var(--panel);border:1px solid var(--line);
  border-radius:var(--radius);padding:14px 16px}
label{display:block;margin:10px 0;font-size:.92rem}
.filters label{margin:0}
input,select,textarea{width:100%;background:#171116;border:1px solid var(--line);color:var(--ink);
  border-radius:10px;padding:10px 12px;font:inherit;margin-top:4px}
.filters input,.filters select{width:auto;min-width:120px}
label.check{display:flex;gap:8px;align-items:center;margin:6px 0}
label.check input{width:auto;margin:0}
fieldset{border:1px solid var(--line);border-radius:12px;margin:14px 0;padding:10px 16px}
legend{color:var(--muted);padding:0 6px}
.form-card{max-width:520px;margin:34px auto;background:var(--panel);border:1px solid var(--line);
  border-radius:var(--radius);padding:26px 28px}
.detail{display:grid;grid-template-columns:1fr 1.2fr;gap:26px}
@media(max-width:760px){.detail{grid-template-columns:1fr}}
.detail-photo{width:100%;border-radius:var(--radius);margin-bottom:12px;object-fit:cover;max-height:480px;background:#2c2129}
span.detail-photo.initials{display:flex;height:320px;align-items:center;justify-content:center;font-size:6rem;color:var(--accent);font-weight:800}
.bio{font-size:1.05rem;white-space:pre-wrap}
.match-chip{background:var(--grad);color:#fff;border-radius:999px;padding:6px 14px;font-weight:700}
.match-chip.soft{background:#33222b;color:#f0c6cd;border:1px solid var(--line)}
.actions{margin:20px 0;display:flex;gap:10px;align-items:center;flex-wrap:wrap}
form.inline{display:inline}
.safety{margin-top:26px;border-top:1px solid var(--line);padding-top:12px}
.safety summary{cursor:pointer;color:var(--muted)}
.photo-row{display:flex;gap:14px;flex-wrap:wrap}
.photo-row figure{margin:0;width:150px}
.photo-row img{width:150px;height:150px;object-fit:cover;border-radius:12px}
.conv{display:flex;gap:14px;align-items:center;background:var(--panel);border:1px solid var(--line);
  border-radius:var(--radius);padding:12px 16px;margin:10px 0;color:var(--ink)}
.conv:hover{text-decoration:none;border-color:var(--accent)}
.avatar{width:52px;height:52px;border-radius:50%;object-fit:cover;background:#2c2129;flex:none}
span.avatar.initials{display:inline-flex;align-items:center;justify-content:center;font-weight:800;color:var(--accent);font-size:1.3rem}
.conv-body{display:flex;flex-direction:column;flex:1}
.thread{display:flex;flex-direction:column;gap:10px;margin:18px 0}
.msg{max-width:72%;padding:10px 14px;border-radius:16px;background:#2b2129;border:1px solid var(--line)}
.msg.mine{align-self:flex-end;background:linear-gradient(120deg,#7c2438,#8a3a2a);border:0}
.msg p{margin:0}.msg-time{display:block;font-size:.72rem;color:var(--muted);margin-top:4px}
.icebreaker{background:#2c2118;border:1px solid #7a5a35;color:#f3d9ae;border-radius:12px;padding:14px 16px}
.composer{display:flex;gap:10px;position:sticky;bottom:14px;background:var(--bg2);border:1px solid var(--line);
  border-radius:999px;padding:8px}
.composer input{flex:1;border:0;background:transparent;margin:0}
.admin-table{width:100%;border-collapse:collapse;background:var(--panel);border:1px solid var(--line);border-radius:var(--radius);overflow:hidden}
.admin-table th,.admin-table td{padding:10px 12px;border-bottom:1px solid var(--line);text-align:left;vertical-align:top}
.row-actions{white-space:normal;min-width:200px}
.danger-zone{border-color:#7a3542}
.foot{border-top:1px solid var(--line);padding:22px;text-align:center;color:var(--muted)}